Post more of my writing publicly on my email & social media to build relationships with people who my work can really help. (Why?? ATM I’m inspired to help people who have been caught in the cross winds of the tech bro culture and the manifestation ‘dream life’ worlds)

Find a specific moment where you are actively demonstrating this trait.

2. What do you say is stopping you? (brain dump all the excuses, there may be more than one, work on each excuse one at a time)

I take too wrong to write an article… because I want to get it “right”. Takes me too long to write, and I don’t then have time. What if I post and people don’t get it. I want it to be really good! Don’t want people to think I’m just shouting into the void.

(These are not excuses. These are surface-level rationalisations, we’re not fixing them — we’re going underneath them. These are your “tiny grains of sand”)

3. What are the benefits to me continuing to do what I’m doing? (no one does anything without a strong motive… here we’re reducing shame)

• If I spend long time writing it means the quality is better
• I can make sure the people who do read it understand
• I can avoid being misunderstood
• I can avoid people finding me before I’m ready / have the right systems in place
• I can continue making my clients happy delivering on their work
• I don’t have to make a final decision
• Waiting before sending my book proposal actually made it better, if I sent it too early I would have lost the deal
• It means I have to cut something that I’m already doing, or manage my schedule in a different way, not taking action means I don’t have to change anything

Add at least 10… better if it’s 50!! As many as possible… These are real benefits. Until the benefits of posting outweigh these, behaviour won’t change.

4. Look at the 8 character traits of the world builder and choose which one you can use as your stable based to move forward on this thing? Which trait is this action actually asking me to express?

For this challenge, I think I need to work on:

#6 prioritises momentum over perfection. “Find a time where you chose to create momentum versus waiting for the perfect conditions”